Source 3. They have more interesting jobs and hobbies, and their profiles are just better… no stupid selfie-only profiles. I have no desire to have a man telling how I should be conducting my life. Some of them are a little excessive. A less confident man who's just beginning to forge his own path won't always be so enamored of your history.
If I respond, does that make me a cougar? History brings knowledge of the world and how to navigate it. When women start conversations, they tend to message men closer to their own age.