It becomes about what is next versus what is available and in front of you. You're Overly Insecure We all have flaws, and we all have insecurities. If you're not ready to be a partner, then spare them the agony of unwanted drama. Enjoy yourself.
Starting a relationship with an overly insecure person can be a nightmare for the other party involved. The one you kissed on New Years Eve. And if they do get close, then they avoid conflict in order not to ruin things. Well, like most people, they get lonely. Something is in the air and completely off about the way we are approaching and handling the process.