Most fetishes are visual in nature, and males are thought to be more sexually sensitive to visual stimuli. Though the actual existence of ghosts is up for debate and for excellent Halloween movie marathons , the sexual attraction that spectrophiles report feeling is as real as any other fetish. Zappers are frequently used as part of DS play in which the dominant shocks the subs. I know. Using these terms is totally OK if everyone involved is into it!
Sigmund Freud believed that sexual fetishism in men derived from the unconscious fear of the mother's genitals, from men's universal fear of castration, and from a man's fantasy that his mother had had a penis but that it had been cut off. They're used for myriad sexy things, like the underrated hand job, fingering, and back massages. O Is for Objectum Sexuality Objectum sexuality refers to a sexual relationship or attraction to an inanimate object.