If someone has added you to their "Hot List," it generally means they're interested in you : What is profile status "Unconfirmed", "Approval," "Active," "Suspended"? The reasons why people choose Buddhist dating sites as a tool for finding their perfects matches are quite obvious. I find the notion both intriguing and horrifying. In Florida, all mortgages are foreclosed in equity. Perhaps dating is just a way to practice keeping the door of my heart open to intimacy—without attachment to results.
Their free profile is a misnomer. Basic Profiles and searches are available for members only. But of course no one is required to upgrade to Gold Membership, it is simply an optional upgrade.