Have aged gracefully though no one believes me when I say I just turned But every day I coach women like you through situations they wish they didn't get into. A lot of people say they don't want to be single for that long. In a long marriage you age together; in a weird way your spouse remains that young person you first knew, you hardly notice the wrinkles and the thickening waist. If somebody looks interesting online, don't just "wink" or "flirt" -- a quick but somewhat unromantic way to let him or her know you're interested.
This online database makes it simple to find a book club or reading group in your area. To meet your kind of partner, you need to surround yourself with your kind of people. They explain by saying they are younger than their age.