Can you handle his suspicion and jealousy? Besides all that stuff that looks good on paper, I think I'm fun and I'd be a great girlfriend and, someday, wife, if I could just meet the right guy. Red Flag 1: Beware the Rebound. Tread lightly in this department, because you consider both their well-being without overstepping any boundaries offending them and his ex-wife. It also fosters respect and admiration.
These things take time to work out. My How to Find Love After 40 workshop is the perfect guide to help you on your way. Let him replace her with you like ice cubes displace water in a glass and all will be well.