Then, Neuman suggests choosing a setting where the focus will be on an activity, not "getting to know each other better. See if they are really asking about their own security and if so, take the opportunity to turn the conversation around. Also, where are you going to meet people?
He recommends opening the conversation with their questions. Don't Treat Kids Like Oscars. The bad news is you may carefully plan your sexual escapades only to be walked in on by your toddler or worse yet, your year-old.