Or maybe the Christmas season leaves them filled with joy and laughter like Buddy the Elf or Clark Griswold. Start the Tinder convo with a question. Most people have a spot they have their eyes and heart on. If you're not proud of the way you made money, instead emphasize where you want to be in a couple of years or what your goals are. If your answer would be more the latter and you seek someone with a similar spontaneous spirit, this is a great question to see if your definitions of "spontaneous" match.
Some may ask for a calm week at work, others for good friends. What is your favorite holiday road trip memory? I won't spoil it for you if you haven't seen it, but I highly recommend it.