These types can often be seen to be at the root of their own emotional issues. INFJs in long-standing relationships want to be able to express their feelings on a regular basis. You are skilled at designing romantic getaways and thoughtful gifts that are somehow quirky, yet exactly what the other person wants to receive.
They tend to believe they know what is best according to the personal and impersonal standards they value most. I believe that people often overlook any pairing of the INFJ with an introvert for fear that too much introversion in the relationship might lead to emotional incompatibility, or possibly a lack of balance in the relationship. Introverted thinking applies objective logic to an inner framework, works through logical analysis inwardly, and seeks inner precision and accuracy. From the onset, I was determined to let my boyfriend understand that he must not confuse his initial level of comfort around me with us sharing a much deeper connection at the start. Cross examine them and challenge their assumptions.