Traveling together is an absolute blast. I take no drama. Sometimes I get to be a big spoon, and sometimes she does. Like a girlfriend who genuinely loves about so is 13, i told me pictures, flirting with long hair and views. Anyone who's just come out of the closet is operating from a heightened emotional space.
If you are a particularly strong woman who likes being in charge, avoid mothering him. He often gives random praise. We figure out what works based on who we are and what feels good.