If your relationship is making you feel anxious because you haven't done this, this, and that, by your third month together, don't panic just yet. Yes, we advise you to follow them, but there is no need to follow them blindly. For some, life circumstances will only allow them to have two or three dates over the course of three months. It doesn't mean that you should keep yourself cold as ice all the time, but there is no need to be in a hurry if you want to figure out whether your date mate is your perfect match or not. Sooner or later your true self is going to show up and your partner is going to abandon you.
There has got to be a sizzling, sexual attraction. Age is just a number. But because I was still in the closet, each time he mentioned any sort of label or action that was a step beyond what I was comfortable with such as calling me his boyfriend or wanting to go on dates , I would ghost him for a few weeks. Or the fact you're secretly, inexplicably still nervous about Hocus Pocus. Not only would a guy be frustrated if someone constantly canceled on him and let him down, but he might also start feeling down about himself.