A good pic is a huge advantage in chatting someone up effectively. Do you ever lay down and stare up into the stars at night and wonder why there is so much sadness in the world, and why there are so many times in movies when you see someone make an incredible sandwich but they never get to eat it, or why we haven't met yet? After all, most people secretly love talking about themselves! All you need is a bit of confidence, a bit of common sense, and some examples to learn from. What does it look like?
By asking a question, you open up the opportunity for a conversation to occur. If you're not having any luck, talk to a close friend female friend if possible and get their input on what you're doing. What does it look like? Be Brief Avoid going into a speech about your likes and dislikes. Keep it short and sweet and let the rest of your message do the talking for you.