Someone who I can sit with on a Friday night in silence, except for the rustle of pages as we read books on topics as varied as we are. It was our first date, and I was getting to know more than one person at the time. You cannot violate the command of God concerning something so wonderful, and not be hurt by it. Being on the same divine level allows you to encourage each other at times when temptation comes to threaten and tarnish the genuine relationship you are building. Generally these conflicting signals reflect some of the confusion which they experience within themselves as they deal with and try to understand their own emotions.
Please take the time to read the following passages of God's Word to learn that the opposite is true: Song of Solomon b-4a, 10, 11, 15a; and Genesis It has a category for friendship, and it has a category for marriage. Romantic feelings and physical attraction can manipulate and deceive us. That space in between should be intentional. Consider how Joseph fled from Potiphar's wife.