Not exactly perhaps, but close enough that we can grow further both as individuals and as a couple. One trend is towards exclusive matchmaking events for the 'rich and powerful'; for example, an annual June event in Wuhan with expensive entry-ticket prices for men 99, RMB lets financially secure men choose so-called bikini brides based on their beauty and education ,  and the financial exclusivity of the event was criticized by the official news outlet China Daily. One dating partner lies to or keeps information from the other. This can be a good metaphor for our dating habits in general. Michelle, bless her heart, does not.
A little mysterious rather than glamorous. Jealousy about outside interests. There is an argument that when we are dating we are seeking someone like ourselves, a reflection of what we already feel about ourselves and the world around us. As they evolve within themselves, they are less likely to look for someone to compensate for shortcomings and weaknesses or to complete their incompleteness. Use Wink greetings as ice-breakers and they help you to start a new promising relationship.